Since Marriage involves a lifelong covenantal commitment, effective preparation is important both in terms of understanding how to live out a relationship of self-sacrificial love as well as growing in deeper knowledge of yourself as well as your future spouse.
For your marriage preparation, you should plan for minimum six months before the anticipated wedding date. In addition, at least one of the couple should be a registered member of our parish.
The first step is attending one of our marriage information sessions. Below is the schedule for 2025. These sessions are on Tuesday at 7pm in the church.
Mentor couple preparation is available if you’re not able to commit to Unitas classes. You’ll meet as a couple with a dedicated married couple who will provide marriage preparation sessions in their homes. Times and dates can be coordinated with the mentor couple’s availability.
A $80 fee includes a workbook.
Catholic Engaged Encounter is a diocesan-provided overnight retreat that incorporates presentations, self-reflection, and couple’s dialogue. Catholic married couples share their experiences of living out the values of a sacramental marriage, supported by an ordained priest or deacon, and invite couples to have private one-on-one dialogues to learn about each other and the Sacrament of Matrimony. The experience offers engaged couples a unique opportunity to explore together five interrelated themes: The Family we grew up in, Sacramental Marriage, Communication, Intimacy, and Values.
Transformed in Love is a diocesan retreat that will help to explain what love is, and the wonder of the sacredness of marriage. It will prepare you for what to expect on your wedding day, and guide you in managing your family’s finances. This retreat will also equip you to understand who you are, and how to communicate effectively with your spouse. Transformed in Love will help to build and maintain an atmosphere of continuous spiritual growth for your family.
Couple Registration fee is $250. Your registration fee includes all materials, meals, and the Saturday overnight stay in our dorms.
Couple registration fee is $250 and includes both sessions, materials, meals, and a certificate of completion.
Recommended for couples who are unable to meet in person, e.g. live in different cities
The Agape program from CatholicMarriagePrep.com is based on Saint John Paul II's Theology of the Body and offers personalized one-on-one online mentoring by carefully trained married couples. These mentors guide couples throughout the entire process. CatholicMarriagePrep.com encourages couples to deepen their relationships with each other and with Christ.
A distinctive feature of Agape is to foster meaningful discussions between the future bride and groom, helping them build a foundation for a strong, healthy, holy, and Christ-centered marriage. This 100% program recommended for physically separated couples is available in English, Spanish, and French and offers separate Military and Urgent Care courses.
We encourage participating couples to find and engage in additional community-building opportunities at their home parishes.